A family in the making.....

After beginning this blog as a way to stay connected with others during my hospital stay and last few weeks of pregnancy, it has now turned into a way to relay our new sense of "normal". Life changed drastically when we welcomed Natalie to our family. Once we got used to that new normal, our lives changed again and again.....and still once again. Through bed rest, hospital stays, and living with my parents, a sense of normal was completely lost. Now that we've welcomed two more children into our family, we are slowly beginning to understand normal once again. It is definitely not what we're used to, but it is wonderful!



Saturday, January 14, 2012

The Holidays and New Milestones

December brought a lot of excitement to our house. Natalie sang in her very first concert, the boys experienced Christmas for the first time (not that they noticed), and Kevin was able to stay home for eighteen days. It was difficult for all of us when he went back to work. We’re thankful that he has a job in which he’s able to spend so much time at home during the holidays. Although with three little ones at home, we don’t get all the “to do list” items done that we’d like. It was enough just to be home as a family though.

Natalie’s Christmas Program
Natalie’s preschool, Noah’s Ark, put on their annual holiday concert featuring the best and brightest three and four year olds in town. I don’t know how those teachers got a group of over 60 toddlers to stand in one place and sing to a crowd of adoring parents and friends! Natalie was absolutely thrilled. We took a special shopping trip to buy her a dress. Of course I pick out the fancy holiday dresses with black velvet tops and full shiny red or green skirts. To humor Natalie we picked up the dress she wanted and took that as well to the dressing room. This dress was varying shades of purple, had silver glitter all over it, rouching in the middle…..not the “holiday” dress I pictured her in, but we must humor the three year old. In the dressing room, she humors me by trying on all of the fancy dresses I picked out and has reactions of “Oh, that’s nice” or “I think it’s okay” or “Yeah, maybe” then quickly took them off. When we got her purple dress, she puts it on, twirls around, giggles uncontrollably, jumps up and down and squeals. How do you argue with a reaction like that? So Mom’s dreams of the perfect holiday dress were replaced with a vision even more beautiful, a very happy little girl. Who am I kidding? She looks beautiful no matter what she wears! She even picked out some silver glitter covered dress shoes to go with her sparkly dress. There’s just one thing that we didn’t get…..shorts to wear under the dress.

While preparing for the concert, I remind her to keep her skirt down. She has the tendency to grab her skirt and flip it around when she get excited. I reminded her over and over again that she can’t do that on stage because everybody would see her panties. In the car on the way to the concert, we have the same discussion. When we get to the church, once again we have this discussion. Strangely she is one of the shorter students in her class. Luckily the shorter kids were placed up front. Do you see where this is going? Yes, indeed. She did well through most of the concert but toward the end she just couldn’t help it and up comes the skirt. What can you do but laugh? Oh to be a three year old! She still talks about her concert and goes around the house singing her songs. We bought her a karaoke machine for Christmas and she absolutely loves singing her songs. We have about 60 Raffi songs and about 40 Dora songs memorized at this point, and I’m talking about Kevin and I!

Tristan & Everett

It’s hard to believe that next week marks eight months of feeding, diapering, clothing, cleaning, etc, etc, etc. The boys are growing both physically and developmentally.

Everett is now very study and stable when he sits on his own. He’ll sit for a half hour to 45 minutes just playing with (chewing on) his toys. He especially likes sitting and watching his sister dance around and act silly. She loves playing peek-a-boo with him, and basically doing anything to make him laugh. He has the sweetest laugh. It just sounds so genuine.

He has begun “talking” more with his usual “aaaaa dadadadada” and his very high pitch squealing. I swear sometimes only dogs can hear him! After he squeals he’ll look at you and either give you a big grin or giggle. It’s one of the cutest things I’ve ever seen, or heard. He’s a pro at rolling over and will roll across the room with ease. At one point he was more mobile than Tristan just by rolling.

Everett continues to be a finicky eater. We feel as though we have to force him to finish a five ounce bottle. Somehow he knows when he’s finished three ounces. He squirms, screams and pushes the bottle out forcefully. It then takes another hour for him to finish the last two ounces. He’s proving to be quite finicky with solid food as well. He’ll eat maybe two tablespoons of oatmeal if I put cinnamon and sugar in it. I try to put some fruit in with the oatmeal, but that doesn’t always work out. I’m not pushing it though. He’ll eat when he’s ready. He’s kind of like his father in the fact that you’re not going to rush him into anything. He’ll do things in his own time.

Tristan continues to be a brute. He’s our twenty pound butterball. Tristan’s eating habits haven’t changed too much. He’ll pretty much eat anything you put in his mouth. He finishes six ounce bottles with ease and will easily have solid food not long after that. So far he enjoys eating applesauce, pears, mangos, bananas, sweet potatoes, carrots, and squash. I tried making some peas and green beans, but I don’t think I cooked them long enough and the texture was pretty rough. He didn’t really enjoy that. Now I’m a bit afraid to introduce them again. I think I’m just lazy!

Tristan is on the brink of crawling. For the past few weeks he’s been getting onto all fours and rocking, then lunging. He moves around pretty efficiently. It’s almost as if he just can’t take the time to figure out the whole crawling technique. This child is always on the move, always finding exactly what he shouldn’t be getting into, and always heads straight for the box of wipes. We’ll put the box on the bottom shelf of our entertainment unit and he’ll try to climb in there just to get the box. He’s even bonked his head on the upper shelf trying to get in. His newest trick got him in trouble this week. We usually put him on the floor in the seated position. He’s somewhat learned how to get onto his belly from that position. I saw somewhat because he basically throws himself on the floor. On Wednesday he threw himself on the floor, only to find a toy where he landed. I heard the bonk, then heard the unbearable cry. I think I’m a pretty tough mom and don’t get too emotional when my kids are crying (they cry a lot, so I have to have some thick skin or else I’d be a wreck!). This cry was not like any other cry. I grabbed him and he buried his head in my neck and would NOT let go. Here come the mommy tears! I knew he was okay, but this genuine outcry really affected me. He had two red bumps on his eyebrow for a day, but seems to be fine.
The biggest milestone for Mister T is the addition of his first two teeth! I didn’t really notice the first one coming up and my mom actually felt it first. But since that once came, the next one has been pretty painful for him. He’s a more irritable kid than most I’d say, then to add teething on top of that has been exhausting. He hasn’t been sleeping well at night, is very irritable during the day, hasn’t been taking very good naps……just when things were getting easier!

Monday, December 5, 2011

Six Months and Growing like Weeds!

Busy, Busy, Busy Kids
The professional six month pictures in this entry were taken my the very talented Meghan Rickard. Her amazing work can be viewed at www.meghanrickardphotography.com

I can't believe it's been six months since these two little guys entered the world! I look back at pictures of them from six month ago and they barely look like the same kids! Everett looks very similar, but Tristan has changed immensely. I can tell now that they weren't quite done "cooking" when they decided to enter the world, well I think it was more Tristan's idea!  Right now life is very busy and I don't expect it to slow down anytime soon. The older they get, the more entertaining they need. They're also eating some solid foods (which I'm making in my "spare time") so my life pretty much revolves around feeding them bottles, solid food, some playtime and naps. It's glorious when all three kids nap at the same time, although that's a rare occurence. I think the boys realize that the opportunities for one on one mom time is very limited, so one of them always seems to be awake during the "usual" afternoon nap time. I don't mind though. It actually gives me a chance to focus on just one child!
Tristan
Since my last entry, Tristan has become a new baby! He smiles, laughs, and is a very happy little boy. Much different than the first four months of his life! He is the most active baby of my three children. Even when you're holding him, he has to "jump". He LOVES his jumper and will be not just content, but extremely happy in it for 30-45 minutes. He was jumping so high one day that I said "Wow, Tristan! I think you're getting some air!" Natalie then says, "Yeah, Tristan, you're an air conditioner!" So Tristan has yet another nickname. His names so far, according to Natalie, are Tristan Bisten, Grug Bug, Air Conditioner and Wild Child. I can't wait to see what she comes up with next! Tristan is a pro at rolling around and is beginning to scoot. He can hold off on crawling for a few more months, I wouldn't mind! I have a feeling that he'll be the child the gets into everything and climbs up everything! Watch out!
Everett
 Mr. Everett continues to be very charming. He has the sweetest smile and squeals with joy all the time. He's still trying to catch up to his brother with his eating habits. It's just amazing to hold them and spend time with them. They are completely different from each other. Everett is very calm, content, and "chill" as Natalie says. He's still working on rolling over. I think that if he actually tried to roll over, he'd do it. But he just doesn't see the point. He HATES being on his stomach and lasts maybe three minutes before he starts screaming. He's very particular with his solid foods and is still trying to figure out the point of it! Everett is my cuddler. He will sleep for hours if he's being cuddled, but struggles to sleep in his crib for any length of time, except at night. There's usually one feeding at night for lil' E. Natalie has named him Lil' Bug, Everett Keverett, and Chill Boy.
The boys are sleeping from about 8:30 PM until around 7:30 - 8:00 AM. Everett usually wakes up once to be fed. They take an hour or two hour nap in the morning and a two to three hour nap in the afternoon (usually, but definintely not always!). They may also take a short cat nap in the evening. Overall, they're sleeping well and have a pretty set schedule. Days like today make it difficult when Everett wakes up at 6:30 AM and Tristan didn't wake up until 8:30. So for the remainder of the day, their schedules are completely opposite. When one is up, the other is asleep. Trying to keep track of when one needs to sleep and eat gets confusing when their schedules differ.

 





And I don't want to forget about Miss Natalie! She continues to be the best big sister around! She loves her brothers and is beginning to play with them more and more. They smile and laugh at her now so she's pretty excited to play with them. She's learning a lot in preschool and craft time is her FAVORITE! She has to tell me all about her craft everyday. She may take after her mother after all! One of her newest tricks is not one of our favorites. She's having a hard time staying in bed at night, complaining that she's "lonely". I now feel terrible about the insomnia I had as a child and the sleepless nights my parents had to endure with me! I guess I'm getting my payback!
Natalie and Tristan trying out our new stroller.
Natalie is getting super excited for Christmas. This is the first year that she's been excited, especially about Santa. She says almost daily "I just can't wait to see what Santa brings me!" She's also excited to go shopping for her brothers. I asked her one day what she wanted and she said "I want a shirt that says 'I love my brothers'". Now what three year old says that?! I might just have to make that for her! Although she can't wait for Santa's arrival, she didn't want anything to do with sitting on his lap or being anywhere near him.....
Merry Christmas to all!!!!

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Closer to Normal

We are now on day 7 of our new schedule! Both boys have been taking short morning naps, 2-3 hour afternoon naps and a very short evening nap. All of which are in their own beds! I'm liking this schedule.....and so is this happy boy!

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Dare I Say It's Getting Easier?

Our Silly Kiddos.....
Time is a funny thing. At times it seems like the day is dragging on and on and will never end. Then I'll think about something that I keep meaning to do and realize that I've been meaning to get it done for over a month and think "My goodness! How quickly time passes!" I suppose it depends on the "pleasantness" factor of what you are doing at a certain time. The boys turned five months old yesterday. People say "Wow! How time has flown!" I say "Five months? Really? ONLY five months?" I'm actually hoping that the next five months move a little quicker!
Tristan Update: We saw a pediatric gastro-interologist in Spokane a few weeks ago. Although it was nice to have another opinion regarding Tristan's reflux, I didn't learn anything new or get any answers. Basically he'll just have to grow out of it. Since Tristan is on Nutramigen, which is made for babies who have protein sensitivies, the doctor gave us samples of another type of formula which is like Nutramigen.....on steroids. It's only sold through home health companies and is a whopping $50/can, compared to $25/can of Nutramigen and $15/can of general formula. So unless this makes Tristan turn into an absolutely different child, I can't see us changing too much of his diet. Everytime I think we're making progress with him, he seems to regress back to screaming. I don't know if he's just an irritable child or there really is something wrong with him that we just haven't figured out yet. Either way, although I love him to no end, he pushes me to the limit sometimes! He is starting to jabber more and is a pro at rolling over. He seems more content with his new reflux medicine and enjoys playing on the floor and in his jumping toy. At his four month check-up he was a solid 15 pounds, 10 ounces and 24 1/2 inches long. Nobody thinks of him having a reflux problem because he is such a big boy!!  He had a follow-up appointment with our family doctor today and he is now 16 lb 11 oz at five months. He's a chunk to say the least! He definitely has more of me in him than Kevin. His looks and personality are much more like me.....just a little rounder and high strung!


Everett Update: Everett continues to be the happiest baby. Everybody who meets him comments on his constant smiles, adorable coos, and overall cuteness. Although overall Everett is more laid back, he definitely has a temper. And when he's mad, he's MAD!!! He turns bright red and starts sweating. If he cries for too long he'll be soaked. It's comical, yet scary at the same time! I just learned that Kevin was the same way as a baby. Everett focuses on people very well. He's very content and patient. He's very much like Kevin....looks and personality!!

Natalie Update: Natalie keeps us on our toes. In Natalie's mind she rules her surroundings. She remembers EVERYTHING. She still talks about going to Seattle when Grandma had surgery, and how we got a flat tire last November and Uncle Matt had to come pick us up. She knows all of the states, can locate them and identify them simply by their shape. She makes comments about clouds such as "Look at that one, it looks like Vermont!" The funny part is that she's usually right! She's always talking about her baby dolls. She mimics our conversations, as if it were happening to her with her baby. "Baby got me up three times last night! She just wouldn't go to sleep. So I had to feed her and rock her. My back sure hurts from holding baby all the time!" She's hilarious. Tomorrow is her 3 1/2 yr birthday. I know that sounds silly, but Kevin has gotten her an ice cream cake for each 1/2 birthday since she was 6 months old. It's just a cute thing that Kevin does for her. Although today she said that she doesn't know why she's going to be 3 1/2, when really 4 comes after 3. She's a smart cookie!

Kevin and I: We survive. Kevin has been working long hours lately, which is obviously good and bad. We need the money since I'm not working and we have three kids to provide for. It's hard though when he's not here and we have to depend mostly on my Mom to help us. I know my mom enjoys her grandchildren, but I feel bad that she doesn't get much "off" time away from us. It's slowly getting easier to take care of the kids by myself, but simply with Tristan, I still need help. I've been going to physical therapy for my aching back and my therapist/friend Lisa is doing an amazing job of helping me. Although she keeps telling me to relax and I keep telling her that I am....we go round and round! I've also been having some issues with dizziness/light headedness in recent months. I've gone to my general practitioner who sent me to an audiologist who detected something obscure with my left side peripheral vision which may cause some dizziness in stressful times. Stress? What stress? I talked to my doctor again today about the issue because I nearly fell a few times yesterday and last night due to the dizziness and blurred vision. He gave me an over the counter medication and says that if it gets worse I should see a neurologist. I don't know what worse means. Fainting? Falling while holding a baby? I may take matters into my own hands and just make an appointment with a neurologist.

And so on to the sixth month of this incredible journey. Our doctor said it very well today when he said that our life right now is like running a marathon. Yes, you are exhausted, but it's the mental strength that you must overcome until you see that finish line. I'm not sure where that finish line is, but I'd sure like to see it in the distance! Each week/month gets easier, yet harder. Easier in the fact that they are growing and adapting to our schedule. Harder in the fact that they have their own behaviors that continually change that we must adapt to. It's always a give and take!

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Four Months into the Journey

We have hit the four month marker of our new adventure with twins. Since the day they were born I've kept thinking "It'll get better. It'll get easier." I still say that.....hoping and praying that eventuall it does. The good part is that they are mostly sleeping through the night. They'll each wake up once sometime between 4-6 AM, and will go back to sleep until 7 or 8. We are trying to get them into a sleeping routine during the day, but that's proving to be quite difficult. So I continue to say "It'll get better. It'll get easier."

Noteable Accomplishment: Tristan began rolling over last Friday!! Now we can't keep him on his back at all! The scary part is that when he's on his stomach, he wants to scoot around. I have a feeling this child will be crawling in no time!



Natalie at 4 months....see a resemblence?
 Health Update: Tristan's reflux has been worse in the past few weeks. He had an Upper GI done which found nothing other than reflux. I'm relieved that there's nothing seriously wrong with his upper digestive track, yet was hoping to find the culprit of his pain. We have an appointment with a pediatric gastrointerologist on October 5th. Hopefully he has some new ideas for us.


Biggest Joy: Everett is my little chatterbox. He coos and chatters all the time. He has a devilish smile that absolutely melts my heart. He has to be one of the happiest babies I've know. He look completely different from Natalie and Tristan, which is one reason I stare at him so much. He's just the cutest little pip-squeak of a baby!! He definitely has more of the Smith features. He reminds me so much of his cousin Ethan. Kevin says that he reminds him a lot of his Grandpa Smith.


Biggest Shock: Natalie beginning preschool!!!!! I was so excited for her to begin preschool this fall. When the day came, it was all I could do to hold back the tears....before she left! I barely held it together while I dropped her off, but was a mess by the time I got back to the car. I had no idea how difficult it would be to watch my little girl become so independent; independent to the point of not needing me ALL the time! The funniest thing she's said so far goes something like this:
Driving home from preschool....
Gramma: Natalie, what did  you have for a snack today?
Natalie (very excited): A cupcake!
Gramma: A cupcake? Was is somebody's birthday?
Natalie (very uninterested): I don't know.
About 3-4 mintues passes....
Natalie (very non-chalantly): Well, maybe it was that girl with the crown. I don't know.
Then off into never never land she went....  I don't know if it was just they way she said it or her lack of awareness in her surroundings that caught me as being funny.

Monday, August 8, 2011

And Another Month Passes....

I've been meaning to update this for the past two weeks. Such is life with two 12 week olds and a three year old. This past month has been the busiest yet. The boys are thoroughly done with the sleep, eat, poop routine. They are now on to the eat, fuss, sleep, fuss, play, fuss, eat, fuss, sleep, fuss, play, fuss, etc. Did you notice the pattern? Yes, a lot of fussing, crying, and screaming in this house. I'm am not joking or exagerating when I saw that even when the boys are asleep, I still hear them crying. I actually go check on them to make sure that indeed I'm hearing things. How sad is that? Over the past month we've noticed some good changes along with some more unpleasant ones.

Natalie taking Tristan shopping.

The Good:
  • The boys have finally exhausted the three hour feeding routine. They are now on to four hour feedings. You may not think that's much of a change, but it makes a world of difference.  I find this interesting because I'm not giving them much more food per feeding. They just slowly spread out their schedule. We're still stock piling formula and go through about two large containers per week. If I were super-mom I would have breastfed them longer, but I chose my sanity over our checkbook!
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    Everett top, Tristan bottom
    
  • Along with the four hour feedings, their night time feeding schedule has changed drastically. They now eat at 8:00 PM, are usually down for the night by 9:30, are up between 1:00-2:00, then again around 5:00. With only two feedings at night and more sleep in between, we are much happier parents. Well, I'm happier since I feed them! Kevin will help with one feeding per night when he has to go to work so it's not uncommon for me to be up for a couple hours at a time for at least one feeding. It's not ideal, but it's getting better.
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    Everett
    
  • Playtime is becoming more interactive. The boys will lay down and play with their floor toys. They smile and coo and make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Everett especially chatters. He has the cutest little voice right now. He's so reserved most of the time that it catches me off guard when he's chattering away. Tristan is just now beginning to coo. Usually when Tristan is awake he is screaming, so we know he can use his voice, but not "in a positive way" (how's that for a teacher term?).
  • Natalie. Natalie is my good. She has grown so much in the past few months. We went though our jealous stage, our defiant stage, our angry stage and now we've moved on. She loves her brothers. I take that back. She absolutely adores, cherishes and is enamored with her brothers. She wants to play with them, help us with them and is always talking to them. She has now nicknamed Everett, Everett Keverett and Tristan is now....get this...Tristan, Bistan, Wistan, Histan, Kistan. Yes, indeed she knows how to rhyme. Tristan is also known as spit-up boy. I love seeing her with the boys. She's an absolutely amazing little girl. She's also beautiful, but I'm a bit prejudice!
The Bad
  • Poor little Tristan. Tristan, Tristan, Tristan.....sigh. Tristan screams. That's it. He screams. When he is awake, he screams. When he is asleep he doesn't. That is the life of Tristan. Did I mention that he rarely sleeps? Did I also mention that I may lose my mind trying to console this child? He's constantly burping, spitting up, tooting, and has a very gurgly belly. We've tried all sorts of formula with none making any difference. Natalie also screamed, but with some reflux medicine and some outragously expensive formula, she turned into a happy baby. None of those tricks have worked with T-man. Lord help me.
  • Stress. Did you know that it's stressful to have a toddler and a set of newborn twins? I'll be the first to tell you that it is unlike anything I've ever thought of. I don't have much time to think about it, but on those rare occasions when I sit down and realize that I'm exhausted, my body aches, and I have absolutely no idea what I've done during the day, where I've been, what I've said, and pretty much turn into a pile of nothingness.....I find myself thinking "Oh, boy. When will this end?" And then a baby cries and I have no more time to ponder. I have people ask me "How do you do it?". I completely understand what my mom has always told me when I'd ask her how she handled my brother and I being 13 months apart. "You just get up and you do it. "  It sounds so simple, and it is until you look back and fully understand what "it" involves.
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    Everett is in Natalie's "tent".
The Ugly
  • Having twins sucks when it comes to body image. Now six pounds away from pre-babies weight.....and holding steady. Six pounds....nothing right? I'm now thinking that weight from other parts of my body have migrated to my stomach, hips and thighs because I'm 100% certain that if I lost 6 pounds, I STILL would not fit into my clothes. This just sucks. Sucks, sucks, sucks. No time to exercise (yet), no energy....just a feeling of "Oh gross, is that me in the mirror?" To all of you saying "Oh, Sarah, you just had twins. The weight will come off. It took nine months to put it on. You look great (I love it when they add "for having twins")." I have this to say....  Yes, I know the weight will come off, I know it doesn't matter right now, I know that there will be time to exercise. But at this moment it's just one of those things that irritates me. I feel great, I just want to look how I feel.

And so another installment of the thoughts of a crazy, frazzled, mother of three comes to a close. Even through my venting, I wouldn't have my life any other way. Kevin and I are extremely happy. Probably happier than we've been in awhile. I feel extremely loved and continue to have my amazing mom help me every single day with my children. She's a God-send. I WOULD NOT be able to do this on my own and feel as though God has given me such wonderful gifts in life. I always imagined myself being a self-sufficient, independent woman. This gift of twins has taught me that aksing and accepting help allows you to see the things that are most important in life. It's the people you surround yourself with. It's your family, your friends and those whom you didn't even know cared for you until allowed them to become part of your life. I thank everyone who has either given their time to help me or simply offered.

I need to check on Tristan, he's been asleep for two and a half hours.....what's wrong????

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Closing in on Two Months

Some may say "Wow! Two months already?". I say..... "Wow, it seems like it has been more than two months!". Everybody comments on how big they are and how time is flying. I'll let you in on a secret. When you are at home with two newborns and a three year old time does go by quickly in the sense of not enough hours in the day to get everything done, but when the boys need to be fed every 3-4 hours day and night, diapers need to be changed, clothes need changing, baths need to be given, etc, etc, etc, it really does not feel like time is flying by. Maybe when the boys are able to easily go 4 hours between feedings, sleep more soundly at night and are able to be awake without crying, maybe time will feel like it's flying by. As for now, each day is pretty much the same. Life is on hold and I sometimes feel like a prisoner in this never ending cycle of bottle making, feeding, diapers, laundry, dishes, cleaning/picking-up, and trying to actually spend some time with Natalie. I never understood why people wanted to "get away" and do nothing on vacation. I've always wanted to travel somewhere so that I could "do" something or see something new. I have to admit that right at this moment, I understand the desire to go somewhere and do nothing.


They just can't leave eachother alone.
 Now, don't get me wrong. I wouldn't change the fact of having three incredibly healthy and loving children. And yes, I know that I'll look back at this time and wonder how it went by so quickly, but right now, today, at this moment it seems like a long road ahead! I have a lot of people helping so it's not that I'm overwhelmed by the amount of work to do, it's just the cycle of doing it over and over again...and again....and again...and again. I long for the time when the boys can interact with us and eachother. I have to admit that even with Natalie I was not a fan of the newborn stage. They are cute and are definitely miracles, but I'm more of an "infant" and toddler kind of person. Maybe that's a bit selfish, but I'm not trying to sugar coat anyting!

Unhappy babies on the 4th of July
As the boys approach their two month milestone, they've grown tremendously and are continuing to change. As of a week ago, Everett weighed 9 pounds 8 ounces. Knowing this, we're assuming Tristan is at least 11 pounds! I had to take Everett back to our wonderful doctor because he was still struggling with his snorty nose. It always sounds like he's congested, yet we can't ever get anyting out of his nose. He struggles to breathe when he eats and snores like an old man when he sleeps. Our doctor referred us to an ear, nose and throat specialist to probe into a possible cause. We visited Dr. Theil yesterday and I believe Everett may still be traumatized by the visit (I know I am!)! Dr. Theil took a long probe and inserted it into Everett's nose and down his throat. You can imagine how much fun that was! I was wearing a cranberry colored shirt, and his poor little face was camoflauged into it during the procedure. The findings were good and bad. I was hoping it was nothing serious, but "fixable". It turns out that it's not serious, but it's also nothing that's very fixable at the moment. Everett's soft pallette hangs down lower than most people's, therefore it vibrates more. When asked if there were any snorers in the family I had to laugh. Kevin snores like a freight train! So we can blame that on Daddy. I asked the doctor if she could cure Kevin's snoring and she said she could try.....I see an appointment in the near future! Also, since Everett has a recessed chin/jaw, his poor tongue does not have much room in his mouth so it has to fall back further. So the combination of the pallette hanging down and his tongue being pushed back causes them to irritate each other and make him congested. He should grow out of the soft pallette issue mostly, but he'll always have that problem. Dr. Theil just said that since he makes so much noise we'll always know where he is. I guess that's the silver lining! She mentioned that we might want to take him to a maxilofacial oral surgeon at some point to correct his jaw. She told us to start saving our pennies.

Tristan discovers the mirror and sees a handsome boy!
Between Everett's jaw and Natalie's missing teeth, we may have to have a dental fund started before a college fund! So far Tristan is just fussy, but nothing medically wrong......still waiting for his "ailment" to appear! I think his ailment is simply a bad temper and impatience. I wonder who he gets that from! 

Natalie's 4th of July new pool.
Sicne we spend so much time caring for the boys, Natalie many times has to wait for attention. I know older children go through this, but it doesn't make it any easier to know that it's normal. Kevin and I are leaving the boys with their grandmothers on Friday to take Natalie to "A Day out with Thomas" in Snoqualmie. She loves Thomas the Train and I couldn't resist buying tickets for the exhibit and train ride. I was a sucker and bought the conductor's package that comes with an engineer's hat, a lanyard with a Thomas train at the end and a Thomas the Train whistle. I can't wait to see her reaction when we arrive. I also can't wait to get out of the house!!!! Did I just say that?! We plan on hitting the oulet stores and visiting with my cousin's family who lives in Snoqualmie while we're there. They're creating quite the buzz with their little boy dancing at a recent Mariner's game. It's been a long time since we've seen them and I'm excited to finally catch up.

Speaking of cousins, Natalie said yesterday that she has two cousins. She asked how many cousins Daddy had. I told her two. Then she asked how many I had. Oh boy! I couldn't tell her so I started telling her all of their names. You can imagine her first reaction of "Wow, that's a lot!" to her utter boredom and eventual walking away from me! She'll learn one day that having a large family is more exciting than just listing names!

Ava and Natalie helping Papa open his birthday presents.
One more Natalie"ism" before I sign off..... During a recent trip to Costco, Natalie and I were pushing the cart back into one of the parking lot stalls. I turned quickly and lost my balance and bumped into her. Here's the ensuing conversation:
Me: Oops! Mommy lost her balance.
Nat: (Looking very inquisitively) Where did it go?
Me: Where did what go?
Nat: Your balance. Did you leave it in the store?
Me (lauging) No. When you almost fall down you say that you "lose your balance."
Nat: But where is it? I think you left it in the store. Maybe we should go look for it.
Me: Yes, maybe we should, but it's late and we need to get home.

So from now on, Costco not only carries bulk items, but it also has Mommy's balance!


Tristan and Everett at 8 weeks

Tristan (on left) was fussing, so this is what I found when I went to "save" him. I don't know who the culprit was!

Hurry and take the picture so we can feed them!